I trully believe that statement, the older you are the better mommy you can be....I have noticed since having my baby in July 2009 I have alot more patience than when i was in my early twenties. I enjoy every moment of his life, things that I didn't notice when my other two were little....I guess when you are in your early twenties you are still young yourself and having kids that young makes it harder on you,you still want to enjoy your life in your twenties. I was so lucky to have my husband's mom.being in your fourties you're more focused on your baby and look at them totally different...I am so glad that I have this baby!!