My husband and I are trying for our 2nd child. We will be married 7 years in March '09. It took us 8 months to get pregnant with our first child a boy. This time it is the 9th month and still not pregnant. I took bc pill for 18 mths before trying first time. This time was on them for 3.5 years. So sometimes if you have been on the bc pill you have to wait for your system to just clear. I'm not giving up yet!