No your not all alone. my husband and I have been trying for over a year and have not had any luck yet. My first husband and I tried for about 8 months and I finally got pregnant. About 3 years ago when I first started sleeping with my (now) husband I was late and started feaking out. Thinking the whole time I wasn't ready for another child, now I would give anything to have actually been pregnant at that time. My husband is 37 and I am 28. My daughter is 8. I am not getting any younger and my husband isn't either. I want another child and would love to give my husband his own child. I haven't went to a specialist yet but I guess that should be my next step.