I know from experience it is hard to just forget about it and see what happens. I've been ttc for about 2 years now and finally made the jump for fertility help. I consulted a doctor with Shady Grove Fertility Center recommended by a few of my friends and so far very happy with them. They are very friendly and helpful with everything. I should be good to go for a round of IUI in April. Approaching your mid 30's you really should seek fertility help soon. If you are near the Md, Va, DC area check out Shady Grove.