Had to convince DH

maman-lindsay · #1 (**permalink**) 02-01-2009, 10:26 AM

Hey Ladies! How many of you had to convince DH that you should have another baby and what did it take to convince him
I have to wait until DH finds a job here in town and put $1000 into saving! AHHH But i dont mind, my baby is only 1 and I really dont think that she is ready yet.

key2myheart · #2 (**permalink**) 02-01-2009, 12:59 PM

Me! We have been talking about it occasionally of the past 6 months or so. Finally I laid it all out there for DH, letting him know my plan. Then I gave him some time to warm up to it. LOL, DH still won't admit that he is ready, but he brings the topic up more than I do! He would never admit that he is just as excited as I am, but I can soo tell he is. We both have always wanted 3 or 4 children. (And there was even a breif moment after our first was born, that DH told me he wanted 6!) We have waited 4 years though to get ready. And we still have a few more months to get the timing right with work. But I (and DH) can't wait!

wantingtobemomagain · #3 (**permalink**) 02-28-2009, 06:01 PM

Good luck with TTC. I am going for surgery on March 4th for a reversal...My husband and I are excited. This will be my 3rd. total we will have 4 with my stepson.

LynD3 · #4 (**permalink**) 04-06-2009, 02:43 PM

hi girls im planning my 4th have 3boys aged 5,3 and 2 but have been so broody last 6months or so,am delighted to read other moms planning a 3rd or 4th child,have to ask though and excuse my ignorance what is DH?? something husband?? good luck girls with TTC!!!

Twin mom · #5 (**permalink**) 04-22-2009, 06:56 PM

I kind of have been convincing him. He supports me in it, but I want him 100% on board. We have 6 yr old twins, so life just got easier and he is worried about going back to the baby schedule. He also worries about having three kids on a military salary, but lots of people do it!

Indyboymom3 · #6 (**permalink**) 05-01-2009, 09:20 AM

Hi! I had to work on DH for almost two years now...it finally took seeing two of my friends have their fourth and how they handled the chaos just fine. Also, our youngest is almost 4 now, and I think he is really missing the baby phase, their little funny faces they make, they way they smell, all of that...he has just this week come around, so I am praying he doesn't change his mind.

Amy
mom to
Jack (8)
Charlie(6)
Luke(4)

#7 (**permalink**) 05-01-2009, 11:11 AM

My honey wants a football team weather we can send them to college or not he was fixed the day after our third baby was born, I was done. Then last summer I found out I was pregnant. His vasdefrance grew back together!!!! I lost those twins on november 8th 2008 the worst day of my life. I needed another baby now I'm due november 26th. My husband has a permanent smile on his face.