Why me

#1 (**permalink**) 07-10-2009, 09:49 PM

ok i found out Febuary 19th that i was pregnant.. me and my x were so excited that we were gunna be parents things just got outta hand.. we broke up on May 31. he got this new girlfriend and she has 2 kids and he thinks about them more then he does his unborn child.. he has me really frustrated.. and then on top of it all he took all our sons baby clothes.. ok i have 15 weeks left of my pregnancy.. y does he have to be so mean? Im due October 24th and he wants to be there but i told him that his girlfriend cant.. so i dont know what to do.. just let him do what he wants or fight for him.. i mean he is the love of my life and the father of my son... plz help me

#2 (**permalink**) 07-25-2009, 07:40 PM

Dear Why me, boy where does one start, one there is no way i would have either of them at the birth he most certainly does not deserve to be at such a wonderful experience and do you really think he is worth fighting for, if i where you i would focus on your baby and let him go. Where was his sense of responsibility or respect for you to leave you whilst you are pregnant. Surround yourself with people who are going to care about you, it may take a while but in the long run you will be so much better off.

jen0608 · #3 (**permalink**) 07-27-2009, 05:18 AM

I think it's about time for you to stand up for your baby. If then you dont want your baby, there are foster homes who will take care of him/her as if they are their own.