first things first CONGRATULATIONS ! albeit your baby wasnt planned but ...here you are so enjoy

) my son was born on halloween aswell ,i am now pregnant with baby no 2 which is due on the 29th of october how super spooky ! lol exactly 6 years between them .
but my best advice to you is to keep an open mind about the bith you may decide on certain ways etc but some times things dont go exactly the way you had planned and read up on certain proceduers so u know what they are doing ! when they had to give me an episiotomy my hubby and mum were worried to death because they didnt know what it was but i was fine cause id read up on things bless em ! goodluck xx