Hi i am 25 years old. I was in a 4 year relationship with in the 4 years i got pregnant 4 times. I decied the 4th time to keep it but i ended having a miscarriage at 6 months. Now im pregnant again. I know it must seem stupid to you but i have a problem that i really need help with. I am pregnant again for my 5th time im just scared just because im not sure if i am ready to have a baby alone on my own. This all happened in a period of 3 years. I dont know what to do. I dont know if i should give the baby up for adoption or if i should keep it. OR HAVE ANOTHER ABORTION.(WHICH I REALLY DONT WANT TO DO) IM STILL NOT OVER MY ABORTIONS, I HATE MYSELF FOR KILLING SOMETHING THAT HAD A PART OF ME. Im just scared i wont be able to have children one day. And like most women i want babys and a family. Please give me some help.

...Ok, I don't know you, but why on earth were you having sex if you didn't want a child? why were you not one some form of birth control to prevent this from happening? I am 22 years old I have a piss poor job loading airplanes with luggage, I am as single as they come but I was grown up enough to make the decision to have sex and guess what? now I have to be grown up enough to get my life together and care for a child on my own, and to be honest I couldn't be happier. You are 25 years old stop thinking about yourself and think about your unborn child and grow up. I know you don't want negative comments...but the world can be a negative place and I am not sure how much sympathy you will get from a board like this. And no offence honestly no offence...but people who use abortions as a form of birth control just really bother me. please please please...grow up and think about this unborn child. don't think about if you are ready or not because if you are having unprotected sex...then guess what you are ready. otherwise you wouldn't have made the stupid decision of having unprotected sex and getting pregnant.

Britta is right abortion was not meant to be used as birth control. It least if you put it up for adoption someone who is ready to give a child what it needs and deserves will get the chance. That is the best way to finally put someone else first and your baby deserves that much from you.

i agree where was your contraception maybe u should have discussed what u would do if this did happen because obviously this was a massive possibility im 19 and even i had the sense to discuss it before it happened step up there was no reason for me not to im not 12 or incapable or on drugs ... look at it resonable what resons do u have not to keep it ... ????